My granddaughter lived only 4 days, the only toy she had in NICU was an elephant lovey. I sent Eli to my daughter just before her birthday, along with a surprise, the octopus. The octopus came with a message for self care, how very appropriate. My 2 yr old grandson has claimed Eli, but at least my daughter has the octopus (and some socks!) for her birthday, as well as knowing no one will forget her little girl.